Well I did call my behavioral health doctor to set a appointment for me to talk about social anxiety but hes book for a while so what do I do now?

He has dated girls during the time I’ve known him, but didn’t seem to very excited about it and didn’t spend much time with them (sometimes he’d leave them to come hang with his pals). Most of the people who meet him think he’s gay and even some of his closest friends have asked him if he is.

I like him and would like to have him as a boyfriend, but he doesn’t know I’m gay and I think that if he’s not, he’d probably stop talking to me for being gay. I get all weird now when I’m with him ’cause I don’t know how to act and sometimes do stupid things like ignoring him at a party or telling him I don’t care for him anymore; the strange thing is that when I get crazy and do this things he plays along and responds to my crazy acting with stunts of his own (like leaving the party or stuff like that).

We’ve both done so much stupid things and have got in so many arguments that I don’t even know what to do next. He’s dating a girl and I’m treating him like he was just some guy I know, he hasn’t said anything but I know it upsets him. What should I do?

Do you think the reason why most portrayals of gay men in Hollywood movies and TV as effeminate characters is because it’s safer and perhaps less “threatening” to straight audiences? I mean, there have been gay characters who are portrayed as masculine, but they often perpetuate the other stereotype of the handsome, GQ model type or all-American boy-next-door type.

Given that men who fall within the “bear” subculture are becoming more visible in western society, do you think this will change? While realistically not all bearish guys behave in a “butch” manner, I’ve known and befriended quite a few who actually do.

Anyone remember a sitcom starring actor John Goodman as a gay man that flopped miserably a few years back?
For anyone who’s not familiar with the gay “bear” subculture:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bear_community

I found some good information on Gay Seville recommending gay friendly hotels and bars in Seville. Anyone can advise more? Thanks

Schwule Sevilla, Spanien

So yeah any summer fashion tips (I’m skinny, white, fit, 6ft, and I kind of dress casual/comfortable with that “vans fashion” if you get what I mean (I love PAC sun. And urban outfitters)

For example:
Nelly can name drop Gucci in a song like “Hot in Herre”, and wear a Gucci hat in a music video like “Dilemma” or a Gucci shirt with the words “GUCCI” in large print across his chest and no one will think twice. Or Jay-Z can rap about numerous luxury brands, and Ja Rule can wear Burberry shirts with the check pattern all over it with a Burberry hat and he’s cool.

Basically black guys can be little pretty boys and everyone thinks he’s straight, but if you aren’t black, a rapper or G@NG$T@ then you’re automatically gay it seems. Any thoughts on this?